Focus on the good!

Focus on the GOOD!

Some days that's easier said than done.

Im glad where I am at in this life because what people have done to me lately would have normally filled my heart with anger, confusion, despair, and I would normally hold a grudge.

Now when someone tries to hurt me I just focus on the good. 

What good comes from people who actively try to hurt you?

well, for me it was them being my lesson.

They are my lesson on trust and who not to trust. 

whether its a friend or family trust can be broken and sometimes never regained.

I have learned that when I focus on the good things their drama seems to effect me less because I dont feed into their problems.

I learned that some people victimize themselves to justify certain actions and it is absolutely absurd and disgusting to me. 

They actually steal and cheat people and then turn around and play the poor pity me card and it makes me sick.

I also feel a little sad because thats the life they chose to live. I dont see them happy hardly ever but yet extremely miserable and always on the move. different people, different homes, loosing all they had because they want people to feel sorry for them.

what ever happened to people striving for independence and being self reliant? It gives such a sense of peace when you accomplish something good and I wish more people could do good things.

The reason I write today is because I have learned a lot and I have also learned that even your own blood can betray you and make you look like the victim because they dont want to confess to their ill actions. 

I remember reading the story of Cain and Abel.

Well... they were brothers and yet Cain killed his brother.

I have found that the bond between blood isnt as thick as we were taught to believe. Even the thickest blood doesnt stop the evil.

I learned how to read people and see between the lines of the stories they have written. They dont want to re write them either.

Rock bottom isnt imminent because to many enablers and to many second chances.

I want to be around people I can see eye to eye with,

people with good vibes and a good heart.

people who seek a better life, happiness and health.

People that are goal oriented and have a purpose for only good.

Those are the people I want in my life.

I want the good in my life.

when you find people you vibe with "Keep them"

they are so far and few between and they are truly special people.

now I know I'm not a perfect human being because I for one do not believe in perfection but I do see the world differently.

I full heartedly believe in Karma.

What you put out, you will receive.

I believe that you should never hurt others but to understand their situation because we all have issues.

I wish I could help others see the world i see but you cant force someone to feel or see something they havent opened their hearts to.

call me a hippy moon child but I definitely dont fit the average mold of what society thinks women should be.

Practice forgiveness but dont let anyone hurt you.

be kind without expectations.

give without the expectations of receiving.

The universe will help you when its your time.

Be the good!

When someone throws you to the ground, and wants to dull your shine, remember you are a diamond and have been compressed and  been through heat to get to where you are. Let them throw you but remember you are scratch proof.

You will shine no matter how much they try to bring you down.

Now its my time to move on. When you see who you want in your life you will see how making an effort to be in theres makes all the difference in a relationship. Some people are just not meant to stay in your life period. Its ok to move on with your life.